Thursday, April 15, 2010
Monday, August 3, 2009
And I didn't even need a Topsy Turvy!
So here they are the day we planted them, 6/15/09... you can barely tell the tomato plants from the grass and other stuff growing (lol) This was sooo not planned. ~
And now, welcome to the wild tomato garden just 4 weeks later! Tomatoes are growing every which way!! The little bamboo stakes didn't last long at holding these wild guys up, next year I'll have to come up with a better plan. :)
But we sure are looking forward to having yummy, delicious organic tomatoes soon. On just one plant alone, I counted 14 tomatoes... which is probably more now! The first ones are starten to ripen and turn red. I've better figure out something to do with all of them -- salsa, spaghetti sauce...???. This picture was actually taken 2 weeks ago and the tomatoes have almost doubled their size since then.
Friday, July 24, 2009
So eggcited!
Monday, July 20, 2009
Not a good day... not a good day at all
You can read more about it at my house building blog here...
www.thenewfarmhouse.blogspot.com
What a cruddy day. I hope tomorrow is much better.
Wednesday, June 17, 2009
What a weekend!
Anyways, here are some of the pictures that we took.
In her tap costume waiting backstage...
In her ballet costume backstage...It's over and she loved it! My mom got her these beautiful flowers. This is my favorite picture. :)
Then David got our go-kart out on Sunday and took the kids for a ride around our fields. He even took the kids through the creek -- what a mess but they had so much fun! We pulled off several ticks (yuck!) before bed but the kids absolutely loved it. I thought Katelyn would be scared but David said she was asking to go faster --> he already had it floored! :) Cole was just grinning from ear to ear. David got me on the go-kart and I thought for sure that he was trying to kill me! lol Here are some pics of the fun...
Before... thumbs up!
Friday, June 12, 2009
Oh where has the time went...
*The kids soccer season ended, they both loved it and are looking forward to the next playing season. Katelyn had an absolutely wonderful coach who didn't mind when she cried her head off during the first game and Cole's team won every single game they played. He was really stoked after losing every game last season. :)
*The kids school year is over. Katelyn will be in 1st grade and Cole got promoted to 5th grade. Katelyn was blessed was such a wonderful teacher for kindergarten, we sure will miss her. I wished that I could clone her to be Katelyns 1st grade teacher too. Cole is looking forward to a great upcoming year. He had a rough year this year so I'm praying for a good 5th grade teacher that will re-ignite his love of learning. They are both super excited about summer break and have kept me crazy busy every single day since the minute they got out of school! :)
*The chickens are getting sooo big. All 10 are still alive (much to my surprise!) and they now live in Katelyn's old playhouse that my hubby converted into cool chicken living quarters... they love it! We just might get our first eggs within several weeks. They are carb chickens -- they won't eat fruit or vegetable treats... but they'll ripe your hand off for some break or spaghetti noodles! Hmmm, they must take after me! ha ha They sure are fun to watch too! It's like a soap opera -- they cluck at each other, scratch for goodies in the dirt together, and then puff up really big to show who's bigger on the chicken bossy-gal list.
*The new house is coming along slowly. It seems like we get one thing done and then stall for another month of the next project. Honestly, it's been the biggest stress ever and has put me in such a funky mood at times. There are just so many details and when it's a DIY project, it just makes it all that more stressful I guess. We've been building for almost 2 whole years. The good news is that everyday we're getting a little closer to move in day! Hip hip hooray! It will all be worth it in the end; when exactly is "the end"... well, we haven't quite figured that out yet! lol
*We've been foster parents now for over 2 years... and I put our home on hold a few months ago until we move in the new house and get settled. I just felt like I needed the break after our last placement left (an 18 month old girl who was physically abused by her parents, but returned back to them we no penalties within 6 months... too soon, too rushed, too much swept under the rug IMHO). I felt run-down and my kids deserved my 100% attention again. I got so wrapped up in that case, trying to advocate for the sweet little girl. It was hard. So I think I must be sick because I actually miss fostering... I don't miss DCS being so involved in my day-to-day life, I just miss the kids. I'm thinking we'll do foster-to-adopt when/if we decide to open our home back up. I'd love to adopt. It's all just been on my mind lately and I'm not sure why.
*On a much brighter note :) I went back to college to be a teacher! After years of thinking about going back to finish my degree and flip-flopping about changing my degree from nursing to elementary education (and losing lots of credit along the way, bummer); I applied, jumped through tons of hoops, and finally met with my education advisor to see what classes I needed. Everyone has been really nice & supportive so far... I figured they'd laugh me right outta the building. :)
*I took a May summer class that lasted 3 weeks... yep, one whole semester in a 3 week course = craziness!! It was nice because I took my class while the kids were in school. It's been a L-O-N-G time since I was up at 1:30am doing homework though. I made an *A* in the class so all the busy days & sleepless nights were worth it I suppose. And I've signed up for more classes in the fall if we can afford it (keeping my fingers crossed).
*I've been trying to grow tomatoes and that's not going so well. I've got 6 plants on the patio here at the rental house in 5-gallon buckets; and 8 or 10 more planted in a big dirt hill at the new house. I thought for sure that the dirt hill plants would just die but I had no where else to plant them -- and didn't want to spend anymore $$$ on buckets either -- so wouldn't you know that they actually look better than my patio bucket ones?! Go figure! I guess because it was a cow pasture for years, and years, and years, all that cow poop made some super awesome dirt so the tomatoes are loving it there. I've got a lot to learn if I want to ever actually grow anything! lol
Anyways, that's been about it for us. :) I can't wait to catch up with what everyone else has been doing.
~Ashley
Monday, April 20, 2009
Woohoo, I'm back for "Not Me! Monday"
I have really missed doing the Not Me! Monday's... so let's get going!
* Being the avid news follower that I am, I was not the least bit confused when I read the top story last week, "New First Dog headed to the Waffle House". Whoops! Not Waffle House, it's the White House. Nope, not me... I can read... but Waffle House does sound yummy right now! :)
* I did not tell the kids that I was throwing away all their Easter candy because their teeth are surely going to rot out of their head and I'm tired of the begging for eating "just one more piece". Every day, more candy arrives -- no kidding! But I would never crash their sugar highs, nope not me! {Yep, it's all disappearing today while they're at school... ah ha ha ha!}
* After a trip to a local state park yesterday full of neat Native American history, I overheard DH talking with a park ranger about an old submarine in SC used in the Civil War. I did not later ask DH if the Indians actually built that submarine -- and ponder how exactly they would do that... I mean, using bones; sticks; arrowheads?? c'mon -- I just couldn't comprehend. Nope, I am not a clueless dork... I am quite the history buff... so definitely not me!
* I did not curse the 10 cute fluffy (and loud!) chicks in my living room at 3:30 this morning when they woke me up from my perfect sleep, all because they thought it was wake up time. I did not mutter under my breath that I'd make them into chicken casserole if they didn't stop chirping so loudly. They are our adorable pets after all, and I'd never eat them -- so I wouldn't dare try to scare them with such a comment! And even if I did, it probably wouldn't work anyway! Nope, not me!
* I did not look at my to-do list today and wonder if I could crawl back in bed and tackle all these "to-do's" another day. I'm way more goal driven than that... so I'd never think of such a lazy thing! Nope, not me... ever, ever! ;)
* And last but not least... While looking thru some recent pics on my computer -- I did not see this one that my DD took of my Clinique Mascara in my bathroom with her brothers kid camera... too funny! And no, her frugal momma does not have a slight Clinique addiction!
Hope everyone has a great day! Leave me a comment and I look forward to reading everyone elses funny Not Me! Monday posts! :)
Sunday, April 19, 2009
A day to randomly reflect...

Today me, DH and the kiddos took a drive after breakfast about 20 minutes up the road to "Old Stone Fort State Park". Honestly, I never knew it was there -- whoops! I've never been a history buff but the older I get, the more interesting it all becomes. It's not a very big place but it's so full of neat history, we just spent time soaking it all up. The kids even commented how much fun it is to learn there versus sitting in a desk reading about it in a book! Over 2,000 years ago the park was (what is believed to have been) a Native American ceremonial site. It has this really cool large mound that has a river flowing on both sides. The museum had so many neat things that have been found there on the grounds, made me realize how clueless I am about history I guess.
What was really sad was that this same area was almost developed in the 1960's to be a lake-front subdivision! Whew, glad that fell through and the state was able to purchase the land. It's just beautiful -- large tall trees, wildlife, a neat old rehabbed bridge, rippling waters, and a peaceful feeling that was so nice (and so much needed!). We are hoping to go back next time and camp -- and use those hiking trails too {versus eating all the roasted marshmallows!}.
Today on the way to the park we spotted a cow that had gotten out of the fence and was almost on the main (way too busy for a cow) highway. The old house nearest the pasture was obviously vacant so we stopped and told a neighbor, then we tried to herd the cow back away from the main road as we could and into the yard until the owner could come open the gate. Yep, cow herding in a minivan! ha! I bet that cow was laughing at us! :)
But the house intrigued me though, it looked lonely. Weird huh? That I think a house is lonely? I mean that you could tell that it once had a family who lived there and loved it and now it was just there... all alone... paint chipping, gutters falling off, bushes/grass/trees/steps overgrown. So I came home and done some research on the house. It was built in 1936 and sits on 135 acres, the farmer who once farmed those fields and tended to that house has since died, even his children are almost all gone.
Maybe it just reminds me of my great-grandmothers house... the house that my grand-daddy built her with his own hands, the house that raised 8 children in only 2 bedrooms plus all the extra grandchildren and great-grandchildren that never seemed to leave... the house that we had every single holiday at and even though we were all a very tight fit you always felt at home... the house that I've owned now since grandma passed away in 2005 and I can't seem to even fix up because I can't imagine it not being "their house", so it's "lonely" too just like this one I saw today. Ahhhh, bitter sweet I suppose. One day, one day.
Anyways, it got me to thinking -- I remember being a young child and wanting the biggest, fanciest house I could ever dream of... like, hmmm, maybe the Barbie Mansion (lol) -- but now as I get older (and hopefully a little wiser for my 32 years of age!), I find that the simple joys in life are what really matters. Kinda like history; or your personal life legacy... what do you want your legacy to be? That you were a good person; were compassionate to those in need; would give the shirt off your back to someone who needed it more; caring; thoughful; loyal; trustworthy; happy; loving... these are just some that I hope can be said about me one day even if I live in a shack or a mansion or a tent or a camper. Even this little house below that is behind that big house above that's for sale looks good!

So I don't look forward to having that fancy barbie mansion anymore -- but I do look forward to having farm animals on our perfect comfy cozy house that my husband is building for our family; happy children playing in our creek; learning how to plant vegetable gardens; flowers in bloom; sounds of our tractor; pretty trees and colored bushes; freshly cut haybales; butterflies; hummingbirds; and a fancy chicken coop -- yep, that's my new fancy. :)
So today for me has been quite nice, peaceful and thought provoking. I like those kind of days I guess... sure beats just sitting around cleaning house (again!) and watching Dr. Phil. :)
Saturday, April 18, 2009
What is this?
Wednesday, April 8, 2009
Saddened & Sick...
Luckily for us, my son was never alone with this man, but I still feel sick just knowing that he even looked at my son and was in the same room with all these innocent children! I've seen this creep in the school parking lot and smiled at him -- never thinking for a second that he was a child predator. What's even more scary is that he would have also had access to the SAME bathroom that the school children use... and that just really makes me sick! :(
Luckily, he's off the streets now... but sadly, it took over 30 years for the real monster to be known. He has worked many many years for the big science musuem in Nashville; done youth camps; science homeschool classes; he's worked as both a substitute & regular teacher in both public & private schools; among many, many other places where as parents, I think we let our guard down a bit more. This is a blunt reminder that there are sick people everywhere; our children are safe no-where.
My prayers today are with the children who he took advantage of; for the families who are just learning that their child had associated with this sick-o; for the children who have had their pictures shared with other pedophiles; and especially for his own young daughter, who now faces the public eye in finding out that her father is a sick predator.
If you care to read the details about this monster... here is a link...
http://www.murfreesboropost.com/news.php?viewStory=16364
I am an avid news watcher and I hear these kinds of stories far too often... I just never thought it'd be in my childrens school. Call me naive. I just feel sick...
Monday, March 30, 2009
Talk about a learning curve!
If you read my post below, then you saw that we became rather quick (very unplanned) chicken owners. I've had so much to learn ~ and even though I've been reading all about chickens/random farm stuff --> all that "knowledge" that I thought I had went straight out the window once we walked in with the chicks! lol
They've been lots of fun to have around; even if they are in my living room (lol). It's so neat to watch them ~ I love how they just fall asleep so fast (sometimes while still standing up! sometimes all stretched out! sometimes they look not so alive either so I have to check for breathing!) and we love how they stretch their little legs out when they've been sitting down too long. Just when they've all fallen asleep... it never fails that one will jump up chirping loudly and wake them ALL up again -- then they run around for a few minutes, settle back down, fall asleep, and do it all over again! They've officially been named by Katelyn as the "chick gang". Here is a picture from this morning of a few of them standing in the food dish... yeah, I know it's a Christmas mini-loaf pan --> I'm all about repurposing (my Michaels 10 cent after Christmas special from 2 years ago!) ... and it's the best I could find for now until they grow more! :)
Below is todays chick pic! :)
And Cole didn't end up with a bunny after all. I knew that would be a no-go once he started talking about he'd play with the bunny... and feed/water it... but I'd have to clean the poopy cage up everyday. Ummm, no. So we went yesterday and he picked out a cute dwarf hamster and all the fixings to go with it using his birthday money. He is very excited to have his 1st animal that even lives in his room! ;) And the bonus is... it's smaller... it makes less poop... and he gets to clean the cage himself! Yay, win for me! ha ha Here are a few pics of "Peanut" the hamster, who is a girl and lives in a Bolt cage with her very own plastic couch & TV. She stays up all night exercising loudly in her wheel and she even has a look-out tower on the top of her cage. She's one lucky girl, huh? :)
Cole is so excited!
Saturday, March 28, 2009
Done went and done it...
So, me & Katelyn decided we'd better go back and just a few little chickies to get us started... but then the girl who was helping us said we had to get 6 (a law?)... then for some crazy reason, I told Katelyn to pick out 8 chickies instead. Then that number went up to 10, just straight outta my mouth! What has possessed me?? :) We loaded up our buggy full of chickie things and quickly jumped into the van for the 20 ride home -- Katelyn held the little cardboard box full of chicks in her lap all the way home. She was even talking to them, yep, wayyyy cute! They all have survived so far (4+ hours) and are just "talking" away in their little make-shift brooder.
I'll take more pics later (of course!) but here are a few for now! Oh and PS: Cole wants to go back tomorrow and buy a bunny/bunny cage/supplies with his birthday money! I think it may be a good responsibility for him. And I think my husband is going to faint! lol ;)
Hope everyone is having a great weekend so far!
Thursday, March 26, 2009
Tea Party Anyone?
So we've played with toys & games; danced; watched some cartoons; did an impromptu circus act {Katelyn as the ring master/ballerina act & Cole as the juggling act} in the living room floor; and me & Katelyn even did some basic sewing. But I'm starting to run out of "fun" things... which is not good when it's looking like rain for the next 4 days! Yuck!
Luckily for me, Little Miss Katelyn always comes up with the cutest ideas of things to do or crafts to make. So while playing restaurant with her Dora kitchen, she decided to invite me & Cole to a Tea Party {fancy plastic dishes and all! yes, I super duper washed them first... complete germ-o-phobe here}. It was cute and we all enjoyed it. She even had Sierra Mist ready for Cole, the picky one who doesn't like sweet tea. Ahhh, relaxing! :)
Wednesday, March 25, 2009
Calgon... take me away!
And obviously my hearing is going too along with my sanity... because I drove Katelyn 15 miles into town for her dance class in the pouring down rain (I so hate driving in the rain!) only to read the sign on the door saying they were closed this week. I was wondering why I was the only one in the parking lot. Hmph, guess I missed hearing that last week! ha ha
I should've known that today would be crazy --> yesterday I found a 4-leaf clover (a rarity for me!) and when I woke up this morning, my lucky clover that was so pretty yesterday had willowed, rolled and dried up into a 2-leaf clover. That was my sign that I should probably just crawl back into the bed. :)
However... on a small brighter note... several good things have happened today ~
*I did change my blog background to another cute bird theme. I'm totally digging all things bird themed right now, including the cute nest w/eggs & a small bird cage on my "decorating" table in my living room.
*I am totally skemping on the nutritious, healthy dinner tonight and making us some calzones. No slaving in the hot kitchen with a big headache for me... woohoo!
*And since I needed to look half-way presentable {versus the "just crawled out from under a rock" edition of me} to the dance moms who always look flawless, I took a shower... washed my hair AND styled it... and even applied some nice makeup -- all while the kids were having "quiet time" in their rooms (read it as they only banged on the bathroom door 3x versus the usual 8x, lol). Yay me! Even though I goofed b/c there was no dance class, hey, atleast I'm clean! And that matters for something. :)
I hope everyone is having a wonderful day!
Tuesday, March 24, 2009
Soccer season starts again
It didn't help that it was really cold on practice day and only got colder once the sun started going down... like shivering cold for us peeps who get cold easily. I could barely focus! I now realize that I cannot possibly ever live my dream life in the snow field plains of Montana or in the Alaska bush (my 2 choices) --> because if 55 degrees is cold to me, just imagine what the winters there would be! -- I'd turn into a ice sculpture quickly! Brrrr... maybe Hawaii is more up my alley! ha ha :)
So, here are a couple pictures before their first soccer practice.
Here is their "game faces" on... funny!
Cole (in the green shirt) practicing stopping the ball... he had fun but he's team is no joke this season. Very serious stuff now.
Katelyn practicing kicking the ball up past the cones... she looks excited huh?
Fun, warmer times! Yay!
Here are some pics that we took at a local park on the first really nice day.
I forced them to pose by a tree... I'm soooo not a photographer! :)
And here's me & Cole...
and there's Katelyn (she picked out the non-matching bow, btw... lol)
Tuesday, March 17, 2009
Happy St. Patty's Day!
Monday, March 16, 2009
Someone stop me! :)
Awesome Breaking News! --> They're getting chicks in today! Which means... I am NOT allowed NEAR Tractor Supply -- because I am not feeling very strong today. ;)
We've wanted chicks for a few years now but I need to wait until we get all moved in and build a decent coop. But they are ohhhhh so cute! And I've read several chicken/farm animal raising books... so I'm all ready, right? David just said how cool it would be to get the kids involved in 4-H ~ so they'd learn a lot about helping raise the chicks. I could totally talk myself into this... which wouldn't be good! But look at how cute they are too {pic below}.
Ohhhh, I totally have to control myself today. I can hear them now... cheep, cheep, cheep, come buy me Ashley!... cheep, cheep, cheep.... lol!

And the precious fluff ball pup below is another one that we're so looking forward to one day soon! Great Pyrenees are the cutest ever... and they keep the coyotes away too! :)
The last time I went to Tractor Supply when they had animals (a few years ago), I came home with a cute bunny and all the bunny fixings {cage, food, watering stuff, treats, etc...}. The kids were stoked! So David was really scared when they had goats for sale in the front of the store -- they were all in the parking lot and so cute! Had they not been all males... it's very possible that I would have stuffed one in the mini-van and came home with it. :) And he thinks me bringing home stray baby kittens is a problem... ha ha ha!!
Another time, me & the kids ended up at a diary cow auction -- yep, I was secretly eyeing the little heifer bottle babies. I totally would've put one of them in the mini-van too... except they sold for around $1,000 a piece because of their cow lineage. So that totally killed that little plan. But one day I'll get one! :)
Happy Monday everyone!
Sunday, March 15, 2009
I have not been abducted by aliens! :)
We've been so busy around here with birthdays {which equals to parties, goodies, presents...}, then my daughter got sick last week and now I've been sick with the crud for the past few days too. I'm keeping my fingers crossed that it's just allergies and not some super funky crud. Everything here is in full bloom (blah, pollen!) and the weather has strangley went from "oh-it's-so-nice" warm one day to "brrrr, I'm freezing" snowing the next. C'mon spring already, geez!
It's bed time for me now though... so until tomorrow... good nite! :)
Tuesday, March 3, 2009
Ouch!
It's something that I'm working on... and I've forgotten how much I like certain things -- like not having bad hair that looks like a skunk on top and straw at the bottom; and like not wearing the same clothes over & over for years {when the homeless peeps are looking better than you, it's a sign!}; and not having 18 different hair colors in my hair because I'm too cheap to pay to have someone do it {the diy color now has even a twinge of green in it now thanks to a backfired "ash blonde" that didn't work out as planned, lol}. I'm definitely not the "girly-girl princess" that I was in my past life (before kids!), that's for sure. Ahhh, confession... it feels good! ;)
So, back to the story. I had my hair washed/trimmed/styled today. The only problem is the girl who washed my hair was half cat, no kidding! -- she washed my hair and scrubbed so hard {clawing! literally clawing with her pointy nails} that I was almost in tears (or shock!). In her past life, she must have been a tiger. lol I think she could tell that I was uncomfortable when she noticed my neck tensing up in the wash bowl -- but nope, she didn't let up! Actually, now that I think about it... maybe she could tell I looked stressed ~ so she thought I'd enjoy it?? Like I was relaxing. And I know my hair wasn't THAT dirty to need all that kneading, clawing and scrubbing all combined. Hmmm. Surely not, I mean who in their right mind would love getting their scalp peeled off section by section by a total stranger in a random beauty shop? My head still hurts hours later! One thing is for sure, if she is there next time --> I will run straight out the door!
I hope your day was better than mine... atleast this part of my day anyways!

